Letter 1 is from a young widower whose grief is at a low enough level for him to contemplate a future. His stepdaughter, only 5 years younger than him, has the hots for him. He's disgusted and excited. Prudie says to keep being disgusted. She says to make clear nothing will ever happen.
I'm not so sure nothing will ever happen.
Video letter is from a woman with a violent and horrible ex. He's improved a bit since he has a new GF. She feels guilty about him having a new victim and wants to warn her.
Prudie says that anything bad she may say about him will only confirm his stories about her. She says to worry about her future when he again turns the full brunt of his hate on her, see a lawyer, get a restraining order, etc.
Letter 2 a woman who was bullied until she left home and moved far away. Many former bullies have repented and asked forgiveness, which she has given, even though it is painful to relive those memories. This behavior has increased with an upcoming class reunion. How can she say she has forgiven them but wants to forget this part of her life?
I say: You don't owe them anything. Ignore them.
Letter 3 is from a young college grad who's got a good job in a small firm. The VP "jokes" about her drinking (huh?) and wants her to participate in a prank on the big boss.
Prudie says to tell him to STFU. I agree.
Letter 4 is this mess:
I’m in my late 20s and getting married shortly to a man with whom I have
an incredible relationship. Many of our friends are getting married,
too, and I recently found out that at a bachelor party last year there
were strippers, when all of the wives and girlfriends had been told
there were not. Apparently the men were sworn to secrecy by the groom.
There was also a stripper at my future husband's bachelor party, when I
had made clear that I was not comfortable with that. I am incredibly
upset because my fiance has never been dishonest before. There is one
couple in our group of friends who are the perpetrators of all this
nastiness. The other wives and I think it's weird that a wife finds
strippers for her husband's friends. Other than this, they are nice
people. I feel betrayed and disrespected. How can I possibly get over
these feelings before my wedding? How can I deal with my guy ever going
to a bachelor party again? And how do I stand to see this couple
Wow. Get over yourself you big prude. Why do the men lie? Because you're a bitch. And guess what: he watches porn, too.